August/September
2004 Issue Number 62
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FDIC
East October 25-30, 2004 Atlantic City, NJ. Go to www.fdic.com
for more information.
Women
Chief Officers Conference November 11-14, 2004, Wyndham Hotel,
San Diego. For more information, go to www.womenfireofficers.org
11th
International Conference of Fire Service Women March 29-April
3, 2005. Montgomery County, Maryland. Go to www.wfsi.org
for more information.

Mentoring:
Myths and Reality
Mentors
are a good thing. Everyone should have one during a career. This is
the common wisdom. But what is the reality? What kind of benefit do
mentors provide? And just what is a mentor anyway?
The
word mentor comes from the ancient Greek. When Odysseus went to fight
the Trojan War, he left his young son Telemachus at home in the care
of his teacher and wise friend, Mentor. The modern definition of mentor
is consistent with its ancient origins. Mentors are guides, wise friends,
advocates, teachers, advisers.
In
the context of work, a mentor is specifically someone who helps another
with his or her career path or professional development. Mentors illuminate
opportunities, give advice, act as a sounding board, share their own
experiences. This sounds great, and it is. Everyone who has an authentic
mentor will benefit, and both parties in the relationship find value
in it. The problem comes when trying to find a mentor.
Some
mentoring relationships just happen. People work together or know
one another through other professional contacts, and develop a relationship
that capitalizes on the mentor's experience and the protege's eagerness
to learn. Studies show that people with mentors do advance more quickly
and to higher levels in organizations. They may also fulfill their
duties in those advanced positions with more confidence and satisfaction
than if they had been without such a guide.
Based
on this premise, everyone should have a mentor, but not everyone does.
Saying it should "just happen" is neither realistic nor
fair. People who are already insiders in an organization are much
more likely to find a mentor under this informal system than are the
relative outsiders or newcomers. Another danger of the "it should
just happen" approach to finding a mentor is that people under
this system tend to find mentors who are very much like themselves.
This may not be the person that they most need in the moment, and
it does little to expand and diversify the leadership of the organization.
Some
organizations have tried formal mentoring programs, where people are
assigned to one another and have an obligation to meet on a regular
basis. This system can work if the people involved are genuine in
their commitment to the program and make a real connection with the
person to whom they are assigned. Those who are only going through
the motions may do more harm than good.
Another
pitfall of mentoring is that people often assume that mentors must
come from within their own organizations. This is patently false,
and in fact, corporations recognize that the best mentors often come
not only from outside the organization but even from outside the industry.
Mentors are not there to teach technical skills, but rather to give
a broader perspective and guidance in fulfilling one's potential.
There is nothing industry specific about this.
Some
people say that mentors should always be in positions higher than
those they are partnering with: at least two positions above them
is the guideline. But this may be unnecessarily narrow. Mentoring
is about the ability to impart wisdom and guidance based on experience,
and this may have nothing to do with rank or position.
Some
organizations provide mentoring matchmaking services, but tend to
pair people up based on similarity rather than need. Thus you find
women mentoring women, minority men mentoring minority men, paramedics
mentoring paramedics etc. There may be value in this, but the best
mentoring relationships have a specific goal and purpose. Is the person
hoping to promote to officer? Did someone just get hired on the job?
Did the person just take on a new role or responsibility, such as
joining the haz mat team or becoming a fire investigator? Each of
these circumstances would require a very different type of mentor.
One
reason why some people hesitate to enter into a mentoring relationship
is because they feel it commits them for the rest of their careers,
to be somehow responsible for the other person. But that is neither
realistic nor desirable. In fact, most active mentoring relationships
should be finite, based on need and specifically goal driven: at least
six months in duration, but probably not longer than two years. This
is not to say that people who have had this type of relationship do
not continue conversing and exchanging ideas with one another throughout
their careers. Probably they will, but not on the same level as when
they are actively engaged in a mentoring relationship.
With
luck and effort, people will have several mentors throughout their
careers, and likewise should be engaged as a mentor as often. It is
common for people to be both a protege and a mentor at any given time.
Mentoring
is a positive and beneficial relationship for all those who engage
in it. People should be encouraged to seek out mentors as well as
to be one, and organizations should provide access to the skills and
support for members to fulfill these roles well.
Source:
New York Times, July 25, 2004